mommy makeover??

I am at a point right now where I just want a makeover.  My hair is dreary and blah, my make-up is the same old look all the time, and my clothes are too comfortable to be cute most of the time.  They say new moms shouldn't sit around in yoga pants all day, but why wear pants that must make me feel bad about myself?  I buy things bigger when it comes to pants so my belly doesn't stand out because I feel there is nothing worse than people not understanding their body types and making themselves look bigger than they are.  I starting buying new pieces one at a time and am beginning to reinvent myself when it comes to style, but my question is, how?  I am on a budget and I have 3 kids, one of which I still carry in a car seat so heals and cuteness don't feel so great or look that graceful either.  I mean, come on, you can look hot and sexy until you fall over due to wearing heels that are way to thin and tall for you, do you follow me? I see some chicks that aren't dealing with kids that look like they're walking on glass.  Do you think that is hot?  I'll answer that for you, NO!  So, are flats out and heels in, or is comfy style ok whithin reason? 
Soon I am starting DDP yoga with my husband so hopefully my slight belly won't be an issue much longer.  I'll keep you posted about how that goes. 

Happy parenting to you!


Lisa